I am neurodivergent and live with a disabling chronic illness. As a member of a marginalized community, it's very easy to absorb and internalize the prejudices, assumptions and misinformation that abound in society at large. Such internalized negativity and falsehoods certainly create a crossed condition. In conjunction with journaling, meditation, spellwork, therapy and activism, this oil contributes to the many tools I have available to untangle the snarl of thoughts, feelings and assumptions about my value, abilities and ways of understanding and communicating that I still hold within, having taken those burdens on from the environment around me. I wear it to work, use it on candles, and anoint my cane with it. Sometimes I use it along with charms and formulas against the evil eye, especially when I look and act way more fabulous than some dipshit ableist stranger may believe a disabled, autistic weirdo "should" and I just want to browse Wegmans for groceries with out some outraged, nosey twit glaring, staring, and harrassing me about my use of a motorized cart. I would especially recommend this oil for anointing cords for knotting/"untiying" spells, or four boundary work (when someone as "crossed" your personal boundary line and is messing with your mind, your space, your autonomy, or your freedom.) Highly recommend, and will probably order again!
